Friends Together
Friends Together is a day nursery in Harpenden for children aged 3 to 11, with 48 registered places. Ofsted, 11 January 2024: Outstanding overall; safeguarding is effective.
St. Dominic RC School, Southdown Road, Harpenden, AL5 1PF
Key facts
- Type
- Day nursery (Full day care) (Ofsted childcare register, as at 30 June 2026)
- Ages
- 3 to 11 (Ofsted childcare register, as at 30 June 2026)
- Registered places
- 48 (Ofsted childcare register, as at 30 June 2026)
- Children on roll
- 160 (Ofsted report, inspection on 11 January 2024, published 30 January 2024)
- Funded early education
- Yes, the report says it provides funded early education (Ofsted report, inspection on 11 January 2024, published 30 January 2024)
- Staff
- The setting employs eight members of childcare staff. Of these, three hold appropriate early years qualifications at level 3 or above. (Ofsted report, inspection on 11 January 2024, published 30 January 2024)
- Registered
- 3 December 2013 (Ofsted childcare register, as at 30 June 2026)
Opening hours
The setting opens a breakfast club from 7.45am until 8.45am, a pre-school from 12.30pm until 3.30pm and an after-school club from 3.15pm until 6pm during term time only.
Source: Ofsted report, inspection on 11 January 2024, published 30 January 2024
Latest inspection
- Overall: Outstanding
- Personal development: Outstanding
- Quality of education: Outstanding
- Behaviour and attitudes: Outstanding
- Leadership and management: Outstanding
- Safeguarding is effective
Source: Ofsted, inspection on 11 January 2024, report published 30 January 2024. Contains public sector information licensed under the Open Government Licence v3.0.
What is it like to attend this early years setting?
The nurturing manager and staff are extremely successful in building on what children know and can already do as they play. They follow the children's interests, show a genuine interest in what the children are doing and carefully steer their learning. Time and thought go into planning a wide range of learning opportunities which ignite the children's curiosity and interest. Children demonstrate enthusiasm and a willingness to learn. They thoroughly enjoy developing friendships and sharing experiences with their peers and the staff.
Staff provide children with a wide range of activities to support their hand-to-eye coordination and muscle strength. Children show high levels of concentration as they connect magnetic shapes together and use the wand to make bubbles. They demonstrate perseverance, precision and control as they stretch elastic bands over pegs, forming recognisable shapes and patterns. Staff praise children for their achievements, which is extremely effective in supporting their self-esteem. Children smile in response and look very proud. Staff ask questions about how they might use resources, such as the toy train track pieces. This is very successful in supporting the children to differentiate between the different sizes and shapes of the track pieces. Children spontaneously count the number of track pieces and work together very well to achieve their goal. During role-play activities, staff skilfully know when to enable the children to develop their own ideas and when to intervene to extend the children's learning. For example, the children's discussion about teeth leads to staff asking questions about the importance of brushing their teeth and visiting the dentist.
What does the early years setting do well and what does it need to do better?
- The provider, who is also the manager of the pre-school, and staff put children's welfare, safety and development at the centre of everything they do. They are extremely dedicated, respect each child's individual needs and ensure that all children are included in the wide range of learning experiences provided.
- Partnerships with nursery staff and the reception teacher at the school are extremely positive. The consistent sharing of information is very effective in supporting continuity in the children's care and education. There is an excellent breadth of qualifications, experience and skills.
- There is a very strong team ethos. Staff highly praise the manager, who actively supports their well-being and ongoing professional development. For example, staff attendance at training on autism has been very effective in broadening their understanding of how to support children with autism. This has led to new techniques being introduced to support children to manage their emotions and enhance their speech.
- The manager and staff demonstrate high-quality teaching and enthusiastically join in the children's play. They respond to children's interactions with genuine interest and adapt their teaching according to the development needs of the children. The manager and staff skilfully extend children's thinking and broaden their knowledge as they play while asking relevant questions to check their understanding. They use the available resources and equipment very well to promote the children's focus on learning.
- The manager and staff demonstrate that they know the children extremely well. They treat all children as unique individuals, developing kind and caring relationships with them. This is very effective in helping the children to feel safe and secure and supports their emotional well-being very well. Children confidently ask for help and readily seek reassurance if required.
- The manager and staff place a high priority on supporting children's mental health and well-being. They are very effective in supporting children to understand and manage their emotions. Furthermore, children are taught breathing, relaxation and stretching techniques during yoga activities, and they learn why the body sometimes needs time to rest.
- Staff are very effective in supporting children's communication and language skills, including children who speak English as an additional language. Consistent back-and-forth animated conversations help to support the foundations for language development. Additionally, children are provided with a range of experiences to use and embed new words in a range of contexts. For example, children have daily opportunities to sing rhymes and listen to stories. They learn to use phrases such as 'ready, steady, go' as they roll toy cars, and older children confidently use language to share their ideas during role-play activities.
- The manager and staff provide a breadth of experiences, which is very effective in broadening children's knowledge and understanding of the world around them. For example, children learn about the story of the lamp during Hanukkah celebrations and use colourful sequins to decorate clay pots during Diwali celebrations. Additionally, children have opportunities to learn about the roles of others, such as the police, dentist and fire services.
- Children who have special educational needs and/or disabilities are supported well. Staff thoroughly understand children's needs. They work well with other professionals and involve parents in discussions about their child. This support ensures that all children are constantly included and make good progress.
- Parents are extremely complimentary in their praise of the pre-school. They state that staff support children's emotional development very well and provide a safe and nurturing environment. Furthermore, parents state that the pre-school is 'action packed' with fun and education and that they receive frequent updates about their child's care and learning.
Ofsted's words, from the report on the inspection on 11 January 2024 (report published 30 January 2024). Read the full report on the Ofsted website. Contains public sector information licensed under the Open Government Licence v3.0.
Inspection history
Ofsted grades before November 2025 (England)
Inspections before November 2025 gave one overall grade on a four-point scale: Outstanding, Good, Requires improvement, Inadequate. Ofsted also graded the quality of education, behaviour and attitudes, personal development, and leadership and management, and said whether safeguarding was effective.
Settings keep their last grade until Ofsted visits again, so many nurseries still show a grade from this older scale.
Source: Ofsted reports
Funded childcare hours in England
All 3 and 4 year olds in England can get 15 hours of free childcare a week, for 38 weeks of the year.
Working parents of children aged 9 months to 4 years old can get 30 hours of free childcare a week for 38 weeks of the year (Free Childcare for Working Parents), if they meet the earnings rules. You confirm your details every 3 months.
Some 2 year olds can get 15 hours a week when the family gets certain kinds of extra support.
The hours are used at a registered provider that offers them, so ask each nursery how it offers the funded hours.
Source: GOV.UK: Free Childcare for Working Parents, check if you're eligible · GOV.UK: Free childcare and education for 2 to 4 year olds (checked 31 October 2026)
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- Whanau Day Nursery Harpenden - Day nursery, Harpenden AL5 2HU, ages 0 to 4, 55 places, 0.3 milesOfsted, 1 February 2022: Good overall; safeguarding is effective
- United Reformed Church Pre-School and Nursery - Pre-school, Harpenden AL5 4ED, ages 2 to 4, 45 places, 0.3 milesOfsted, 1 February 2022: Outstanding overall; safeguarding is effective
- Bright Horizons Harpenden Central Day Nursery and Preschool - Day nursery, Harpenden AL5 4EL, ages 0 to 4, 52 places, 0.4 milesOfsted, 25 October 2022: Outstanding overall; safeguarding is effective
- Busy Bees Day Nursery at Rothamsted Lodge - Day nursery, Harpenden AL5 2JS, ages 1 to 5, 70 places, 0.6 milesOfsted, 1 February 2023: Good overall; safeguarding is effective
Schools nearby
- St Dominic Catholic Primary School - Primary, under 0.1 miles
- Harpenden Academy - Primary, 0.3 miles
- St Nicholas CofE VA Primary School - Primary, 0.5 miles
- Crabtree Infants' School - Primary, 0.5 miles
- Crabtree Junior School - Primary, 0.6 miles